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夕夕 丽鹿 糸糸 II - 前一部的延续篇

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发表于 13-4-2008 01:56 PM | 显示全部楼层
如果真的有那么一天
有哪个倒霉的男子说要娶我
我想我会跟他说:“你不用烦恼婚礼的事情。”
因为我根本不想要婚礼

说不想结婚
其实也不排斥婚姻
哪知道可能我也会踏上结婚这条路
(说到好像要去死那样:@ )

叫我办婚礼去“折磨”我身边的亲友
我真的做不到
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发表于 13-4-2008 02:11 PM | 显示全部楼层
原帖由 kristy 于 12-4-2008 10:31 AM 发表
我要嫁個有錢人
每天睡到自然醒
數錢數到手抽筋!

心裡一直默念中.........................


oi~ 醒料, 你还要早上起来陪老母去买菜
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 楼主| 发表于 13-4-2008 03:29 PM | 显示全部楼层
老仪,结婚跟办婚礼又是不同的事情。
所以办婚礼是办婚礼,结婚是结婚。
搞到人仰马翻(不是笑,是累),最重要的还是:做来做什么?
要做给自己,就要做个给自己的。
为了做而做,不如不做。


嘀西,你小心木屐从正面时速每小时120公里飞来...
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发表于 13-4-2008 06:53 PM | 显示全部楼层
  笑一笑, 感觉这世界多美好
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 楼主| 发表于 13-4-2008 11:50 PM | 显示全部楼层
快乐与满足的诠释法,每个人不同。
很多时候,堆砌起来的愉悦,不是其他什么可以代替的。
即使在他人眼里微不足道,当事人却可以感受到满怀的喜乐。

这就是个人的价值观。

没什么,纯粹因为今天收到了一份快乐,心里洋溢着不言而喻的满足...

谢谢你男朋友~  ^_^
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 楼主| 发表于 13-4-2008 11:52 PM | 显示全部楼层
~晚安了,快要进入梦乡的全世界~
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 楼主| 发表于 14-4-2008 12:08 PM | 显示全部楼层

[转贴]DARE TO BELIEVE


Everybody Knows:
You can't be all things to all people.
You can't do all things at once.
You can't do all things equally well.
You can't do all things better than everyone else.
Your humanity is showing just like everyone else's.

So:
You have to find out who you are, and be that.
You have to decide what comes first, and do that.
You have to discover your strengths, and use them.
You have to learn not to compete with others,
Because no one else is in the contest of *being you*.

Then:
You will have learned to accept your own uniqueness.
You will have learned to set priorities and make decisions.
You will have learned to live with your limitations.
You will have learned to give yourself the respect that is due.
And you'll be a most vital mortal.

Dare To Believe:
That you are a wonderful, unique person.
That you are a once-in-all-history event.
That it's more than a right, it's your duty, to be who you are.
That life is not a problem to solve, but a gift to cherish.
And you'll be able to stay one up on what used to get you down.

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发表于 14-4-2008 01:28 PM | 显示全部楼层
原帖由 多麗絲 于 14-4-2008 12:08 PM 发表

Everybody Knows:
You can't be all things to all people.
You can't do all things at once.
You can't do all things equally well.
You can't do all things better than everyone else.
Your humanity i ...


很喜歡這一篇。

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 楼主| 发表于 14-4-2008 02:51 PM | 显示全部楼层

刚看到很有意思的一句话:
                         Deliberate Ignorance Can Be a Winning Tactic

The key to success with the strategy is that “the party manipulating the flow of information must deliberately choose to remain uninformed as well.” It isn’t the most new-fangled strategy, nor is it the most ethical one. But an explicit understanding of the idea could help you defend against being tactically left in the dark.

很耐人思考的概念。

也很有point。

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 楼主| 发表于 14-4-2008 02:58 PM | 显示全部楼层
虽然说无知也可以是成功的关键,但是倘若无知成习性,那就很可怕了。
因为轮转的向前是不停的,一个人停滞就代表着脱节。
在离开了轨道后依然故我,那就危险。
所以,看完上面的一段话之后,又看见了这段补充:

We are always left in some sort of darkness because you really don't know what you don't know; i.e., there is always something you don't know and often you don't know what that is. That is a form of automatic ignorance. If you think you know it all, then that is deliberate arrogance. Which is more affordable-- ignorance or arrogance?

我们也许不站在最前端,但也不可以完全落单。
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 楼主| 发表于 14-4-2008 03:15 PM | 显示全部楼层
发人省思的东西,摘来记录。

KEEP THINGS IN PERSPECTIVE













ANTARES IS THE 15TH BRIGHTEST STAR IN THE SKY.
IT IS MORE THAN 1000 LIGHT YEARS AWAY.

HUMBLING, ISN'T IT?

NOW HOW BIG ARE YOU?
AND HOW BIG ARE THE THINGS THAT UPSET YOU TODAY?
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 楼主| 发表于 14-4-2008 03:30 PM | 显示全部楼层

转贴: 20个最常见的销售败笔


  • Ignoring your selling skills weaknesses.
    Fix: Notice what you don’t do so well and get training to fill the gaps.
  • Not keeping your pipeline primed.
    Fix: Schedule quality time for cold-calling and asking for referrals; then do it.
  • Insufficiently researching a prospect.
    Fix: Use the web to discover where your offering fits before the sales call.
  • Failing to follow-up on prospects.
    Fix: Schedule follow-up activities immediately after the customer contact.
  • Calling on contacts that have no budget.
    Fix: Qualify your prospects in your first conversation with them.
  • Presenting in a non-stop sales pitch.
    Fix: Ask questions that draw out wants, needs and opportunities; then address them.
  • Failure to listen to the customer.
    Fix: Focus on everything about the customer: words, gestures, tonality and context.
  • Developing an account but not closing it.
    Fix: Make a final check for agreement and then close. Just do it.
  • Continuing to sell after you’ve closed.
    Fix: When you get a “yes,” stop talking, smile, and take the order. It’s that simple.
  • Forgetting to ask for a referral.
    Fix: At closing, obtain a promise of a referral; request one after you’re sure the customer is delighted.
  • Not being objective.
    Fix: Seek the truth, not what makes you or your manager feel good. When you want know what the customer is thinking, ask.
  • Not being objective.
    Fix:  Seek the truth, not what makes you or your manager feel good. When you want know what the customer is thinking, ask.
  • Ignorance of the competition.
    Fix: Research your market and build your value proposition around capabilities that you have and they don’t.
  • Insufficient planning.
    Fix: For every engagement, know what, why, when and how the customer will buy…and how much they’re willing to pay.
  • Ignoring your sales strength.
    Fix: Review before every sales call why your company is the best and why you’re the best person to buy from.
  • Insufficient product knowledge.
    Fix:  Bone up on your offerings both by using them them yourself and watching customers use them.
  • Insufficient business knowledge.
    Fix:  Research your target industry and its basic business models before you start calling on customers.
  • Ignorance of how the customer buys.
    Fix:  Find out what “gotchas” within the customer’s purchasing process and plan how to overcome them.
  • Trying to close too soon.
    Fix: Ask confirming questions and listen to the customer’s answers carefully. If there’s still resistance, it’s too soon to close.
  • Failure to follow-up after a sale.
    Fix:  After each sale closes, schedule a series of follow-up phone calls and email to check on the customer’s status.
  • Not building a long-term relationship.
    Fix: Find additional opportunities to sell the customer and to the other prospects in the customer’s firm.


来源:BNET


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 楼主| 发表于 14-4-2008 04:02 PM | 显示全部楼层


生意上的谈判总是特别竞争的。
大家都希望可以成功,但往往事情却不是这么简单。
要涵括的事项很多,步步为营而且要确保自己的能够在这个环境下有优势,确实需要注意更多。
我加油ing~
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 楼主| 发表于 14-4-2008 04:21 PM | 显示全部楼层

转贴:GET MOTIVATED



It’s not hard to get motivated. In fact, it’s easy. For example, right now I’m motivated to play a computer game. But I’m writing my blog instead, because I’m also motivated to make this blog successful.

The trick about motivation isn’t simply to get motivated, but to get motivated to do the things that will make you more successful. So here’s an easy way to do this. Ask yourself the following seven questions, taking at least ten seconds per question to let your brain come up with an answer:

   1. What is my purpose for working? Why are you working and why in sales? Do you genuinely want to help people? Would you get bored if you weren’t making money? Do you simply want a paycheck to feed your family? There’s no “right” answer, but you need to know why you’re working, if you’re going to be motivated to take action to fulfill that purpose.

   2. How does what I sell tie into my purpose? The more closely you associate, in your mind, your purpose with whatever you’re selling, the easier you’ll be able to motivate yourself to do what’s necessary to make a sale. For example, if you’re turned on by helping people (your purpose), then you should focus on those aspects of what you’re selling that are truly helpful.

   3. How do my managers’ goals tie into that purpose? Most of the time, your managers want you to be successful because that help them fulfill their objectives. Aligning your purpose with your managers’ objectives removes the notion that you’re being “forced” to work and the feeling of resistance that comes from being pressured.

   4. How does my company’s strategy tie into my purpose? Most companies are founded with some kind of larger goal in mind. (For example, many high tech firms want to “change the world.”) Aligning your purpose with your firm’s corporate strategy puts your day-to-day activities into a larger context, making you part of a greater whole.

   5. What are my specific, ambitious goals? Now that you’ve got everything aligned, set ambitious goals that, if achieved, will create success for yourself, your products, your manager and your company. We’re not talking about meeting quota; we’re talking about a goal that will inspire you — and make you 100 percent certain that you’ll be fulfilling your purpose.

   6. What is my plan to achieve those goals? Review your step-by-step plan to bring you closer to your goals. (If you don’t have a plan yet, this is the time to create one.) Confirm that the steps are workable and reasonable. Don’t be afraid to change the plan as you get closer to the goal and understand better what needs to be done.

   7. What can I do RIGHT NOW to achieve those goals? Motivation feeds on momentum. If you take action, right now, when you’re contemplating these questions, it will carry you through the day, keeping you focused on the activities that will lead you towards your goals and the fulfillment of your purpose.


By Geoffrey James


来源:BNET


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发表于 14-4-2008 05:20 PM | 显示全部楼层

回复 960# 多麗絲 的帖子

我觉得 Forecasting也很重要,不然后果就会...

嗯~这是我每次给新人讲解Forecasting的时候必show得视频,重点是:
Prevention Better Than Cure
Analysis - Collects relevant data, study & analysis it.
Forecast - Utilize strategy tools to make prediction.
Plan - Be prepared before any steps.

p/s:今天什么都是怪怪的,Youtube也闹情绪~我电子邮件视频给你好了

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发表于 14-4-2008 05:59 PM | 显示全部楼层

回复 963# 咖啡豆 的帖子

好恐怖!

本來我打算潛水的。。

看了這麽恐怖的youtube

浮出來了。。。



在水面上很恐怖。
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发表于 14-4-2008 07:51 PM | 显示全部楼层
原帖由 多麗絲 于 14-4-2008 03:15 PM 发表
发人省思的东西,摘来记录。

KEEP THINGS IN PERSPECTIVE




http://img26.picoodle.com/img/img26/4/4/14/f_problem002m_47327d4.j ...


霎时间, 月亮变灰尘了...
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发表于 15-4-2008 12:58 AM | 显示全部楼层
我回来了
罗马是漂亮到不行~



黑夜与白昼 古罗马竞技场


-----------------------
分享一句
"No body plan to fail,they failed to plan."


管理实在是太重要啦~

密斯油!姐姐~

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 楼主| 发表于 15-4-2008 12:56 PM | 显示全部楼层
很多人对于“价钱”很(故意)没有概念。
百物喊涨,这是牵一发动全身的。
友人找我们提供资讯的研发和建设,说要给自家的工厂开启电脑化的应用。
他本身是在电子资讯工厂里的一份子,对于要求也清楚明白。
建议书根据要求做了,问意见的时候对方说:“说跟我心里的预算差三五千还说得过去,差个整两万,哪有可能?”
我没有多说或解释,也许我们把水平设得太高,所以估价就跟着要求而有差异。
但是中间的分别,除非要求的东西是一般购物架上可以找到的东西,否则要刻意针对工厂的程序来写一个系统,1万块还包括硬体设备,我说这不是瞎么?
我感谢对方的真诚与坦白,回应说:“没关系,我再做过一个建议书,把整个构架与建设都重新估计一番。重要的是,我现在更明白要怎么做。”

大家都在找生活,“合理”很重要。
假如心底的谱没这么宽裕,也许重新评估自己的要求一下会节省很多时间、精力。

我在学习啦,大家也都是。
不对么?
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 楼主| 发表于 16-4-2008 05:08 PM | 显示全部楼层
做presentation做到脑袋吐、人也想吐...
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