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坏男人不是只出现在电视剧里的 - 他竟然搞上我至亲的人…
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楼主 |
发表于 11-9-2011 12:10 AM
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他的每一封 sms 我都保存着
部分在电脑，部分在手机
不洗掉，不是因为还缅怀过去
的确，有时还是很想念当初开始相爱的日子
这些 sms 是为了提醒自己
别再轻易相信男人说的每一句话 |
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发表于 11-9-2011 01:36 AM
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那你就放手让你表妹去吧。
反正你也尝试过要救她了，她不接受就让她自己接受以后未来预备要发生的事。
一个巴掌拍不响 |
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发表于 11-9-2011 09:32 AM
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既然你没将他send你的sms删除，没拿给你堂妹看么？
看这男人有多虚伪。 |
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楼主 |
发表于 11-9-2011 10:33 AM
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本帖最后由 putokia 于 11-9-2011 10:36 AM 编辑
那你就放手让你表妹去吧。
反正你也尝试过要救她了，她不接受就让她自己接受以后未来预备要发生的事。
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WeitingTang 发表于 11-9-2011 01:36 AM 
我也想过不理了，反正都已尽力
但我始终觉得是我一手造成的
是我让他们认识，是我常在她面前提他
而且，她也让我看清他
这件事我有所获，但她似乎还没清醒
既然你没将他send你的sms删除，没拿给你堂妹看么？
看这男人有多虚伪。
屁股大大 发表于 11-9-2011 09:32 AM
有的，他们也为了这件事争吵
但不知他又对她说了什么，她就来对付我了 |
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楼主 |
发表于 11-9-2011 10:49 AM
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那天，堂妹来我这里过夜
第二天我送她回去
不知怎的，我就拿她手机来看
打开她的信箱，全都是他的 sms
我很震撼，但还是很镇定地把手机还给她
当时我不知道该怎么办
我彷徨，心痛，决定好好查一下他们之间的关系
而我也不再回复他的任何简讯
接下来的几个礼拜，我都去找我堂妹
他们之间的简讯一点也不简单
那时我很心痛，但还是强作镇定
我让我堂妹看他传给我的简讯，尝试向她洗脑
我堂妹也说他惺惺作态，是个坏男人
虽然我不知道这是否出自她真心话
他还是继续简讯我，我忍不住跟他吵了起来
对他说我全都知道了，他否认
但同时他也去跟我堂妹告密
之后好几次我约我堂妹出来，她都逃避我
我写了一封邮件给她，很长很长的邮件
以为她会听，结果她居然听了他的话
去向我父母告状，说我骚扰她，冤枉她
我父母问我发生什么事，我告诉了他们事情的经过
我父母当然比较信我，因为他们知道我个性
但这件事让我和我堂妹的感情闹僵了
我真的很后悔写那封邮件给她
他知道我不可能再回心转意，居然利用我堂妹来对付我
不然我堂妹是不可能会主动打电话向我父母告状
我父母叫他别再骚扰我和我堂妹
他居然说：“叫她们也别再来骚扰我。”
颠倒是非！ |
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发表于 11-9-2011 10:53 AM
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放手让你堂妹自己去走吧，既然你的好意人家都不领情，在做下去人家只会认为你棒打鸳鸯 |
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发表于 13-9-2011 10:54 AM
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发表于 13-9-2011 11:09 AM
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有时候，无论你怎样劝都没有办法
人， 总要自己跌倒了
才会懂得自己的错在哪里
才知道 哪些人才是对他真的好
你堂妹 不听你的 你又能怎样？
你已经尽力了 |
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发表于 13-9-2011 11:35 AM
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有时候，无论你怎样劝都没有办法
人， 总要自己跌倒了
才会懂得自己的错在哪里
才知道 哪些人才是对他真 ...
飞 发表于 13-9-2011 11:09 AM
非常赞成这说法 |
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发表于 13-9-2011 11:37 AM
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walao～这样也做得出～真不是男人～lz加油～支持你～ |
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发表于 13-9-2011 01:47 PM
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在看在看。。
快快加稿 。。
男人。。总是让女人不安。。。
你和他一起多久了？ |
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发表于 13-9-2011 03:20 PM
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楼主 |
发表于 16-9-2011 12:17 PM
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楼主 |
发表于 16-9-2011 12:26 PM
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其实我堂妹也是个受害者
有阵子我和他分手一个多月
他就在那时候对我堂妹展开追求
但又向我表示对我余情未了
我们复合后，他叫我不需要特地去公告天下
原来他是不想让我堂妹知道我们复合了
偶尔我向我堂妹提起他，我堂妹问我：“你们又在一起了？”
我说：“没啦，大家还是朋友，有联络。”
但后来我还是让她知道，我和他复合了
因为那时我以为我们已经稳定了，而且我习惯和我堂妹聊心事
当时我堂妹一定很难过
粗心的我，一点都没察觉她的异样
最近我去看她的 blog
知道他们也分分合合了好几次
也知道，我堂妹很喜欢他…
不然她也不会这么委屈自己 |
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楼主 |
发表于 16-9-2011 12:40 PM
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本帖最后由 putokia 于 16-9-2011 01:00 PM 编辑
让你们看看这个家伙是如何地厉害做戏
他: “Sorry to disturb. Really glad to have you as my gal even you decide to leave. Goodbye.”
我: “Pls dun pretend anymore. U force me to leave coz you want to tackle other gal. Now you can tell ppl you have no more relationship with me. I let you go coz you don’t love me anymore”
他: “If I don’t love you, I will not change my work. Because of you. I fight for my time and I just manage to get 2 days leave just be with you in December. But you are not. You have others while force me to go.”
我: “How many girls you can love at the same time? 3? 4? I can’t accept it. You betrayed me for more than 1 year. Why you still want to be with me since you have fall in love with other girl?”
他: “I where got other gals?”
我: “Enough xxx. Pls dun force me to revenge.”
他: “Up to you what you want to say. Is enough for me as well. You want to leave just leave.”
我: “I let you go. You want girls you target other ppl. You touch my family I’ll touch your family. I hope my message clear enough.”
他: “I never touch your family. Ok.”
我: “Bear my words in your mind. I won’t repeat it anymore.”
他: “As I say, I didn’t touch your family. Ok. You just want to end it. No need to blame me like this. I will leave. Sorry to disturb. Bye.”
几天后，我生日的前一天，他又来了…
他: Morning. Be4 you get angry or any others things. I just want to say happy birthday to you in advance. I don't mean to spoilt your morning or your tomorrow birthday mood. This will be my real final sms. All my number will no longer valid by tomorrow. Bye
我：i dun need ur wish. get lost from my life 4ever. get away from my family members.
他：I never touch your family.
我：liar. i wish u go to hell asap.
他：Enough with your words.
我：u wan 2play u play me. leave my family members alone. do u know how much u hv hurt me tis time. u nv understand how much i love u. but now i really hate u.
他：I never play you. Is you say all this. As i first day tell you the same things, i don't play with my relationship and i never pull others to my relationship. That why i dare to put you to my life. But you are different. You keeps become selfish. What i think is for the whole situation. What i now doing is helping you to overcome from remember me. I just don't want you to sad. I always sad due to your behavior. But now you started to talk non sense. I never do anything to your family. I changing my number cause company provide new number to me as i will leaving here soon to join to new company. This is what you want. You never want to see me. I will be always travel starting next month and will not be in malaysia at all.
All this is as you wish. I will be disappear from your life forever. Is not i scare but i thinking on your side. I know you cannot let go but after that, is your choice to let go everything. I return back all money to you include the amount that you spend for the hotel caused i worry you not enough money to spend and no one will able to help you.
You always said you got no friend to help. I worry till i transfer all my expenses money to you first be4 i go off to oversea. No matter what you say, your words really hurt me deep. I will never want to hurt you. What you decide i only follow. So now you blame to me that i disturb your family. I never want to do so. I ask you to stop with your words cause it affecting me whole day badly.
我：until now u still duwan 2tell me d truth. im really disappointed wf u.
他：Maybe you think i still lie to you. But the truth fact i never lie and i just do what i should do.
That all and i don't want to make your mood bad at all. Sorry for all the things that i do till make you so hate me. But please don't hate me cause it will only make you unable to forget me. Good bye
I already tell you everything. You don't trust me then nothing i can say
我：u will pay for wat u hv done. u wan 2play fire i'll make sure u get burnt.
他：Is enough xxx. If you disturb me, i will make sure you regret to do so. I already nice to you. I do all for you now you behave such towards me. Tell me what i lie to you.
之后我向他摊开一切，因为我无法忍受他这样欺瞒我
他知道我不会回心转意，就放开我，尽力挽留和我堂妹的感情
如果需要的话，我愿意花些时间翻译以上内容
我的目的很简单，我要让这里的女生知道
有些男生真的很可怕
很厉害做戏，扮可怜 |
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楼主 |
发表于 16-9-2011 03:39 PM
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是有些拉，不过这个也太假了吧
但是要记得，一颗树不等于整片森林
人可以假到很geng，女男女都有
tham 发表于 16-9-2011 01:27 PM
我是个真性情的人，没办法接受虚情假意的人和事 |
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楼主 |
发表于 16-9-2011 03:43 PM
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朋友问，为何不给他一个机会选择
我说，当我知道那件事后，我只想要离开他
没想过要他选择谁
我觉得那是在侮辱我自己 |
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楼主 |
发表于 16-9-2011 03:50 PM
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那晚，手里拿着酒瓶，面向海坐在桥上
四周响着震耳欲聋的音乐，看着在不远处沙滩上喧闹的人群
忍不住又流下了眼泪
不想再这样感伤下去
拉着我朋友的手，跑下沙滩混进人群
带着醉意跟着音乐扭动自己的身体
只想挥走侵袭我的一幕幕回忆 |
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发表于 16-9-2011 11:25 PM
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男人要找借口，容易过吃生菜。。。。我看到也一把火。。。难怪你会叫他死远一点。。。。 |
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发表于 16-9-2011 11:49 PM
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唉，这种戴着假面具的男人。。。
让你看清楚也是一件好事， 你就可以甩了他一了百了。。。
至于你的堂妹， 劝也劝了， 该说的也说了。。。
人长那么大了， 如果自己也不会分析好与坏。。。
你也算 尽力了。。。
是好是坏， 她 要自己承担 |
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