没钱就不要结婚。。那么简单的理念都不明白。。。你知道为什么我没女友吗?因为我的思想是这样。。。我没收入。。不想浪费女孩的时间和青春就是一种慈悲和善心。爱一个人set them free。。if bird fly to your arm just pat their head.bird comes and goes u cant control its freedom if u are cruel u set them in a cage she is unhappy and by looking her unhappy u also feel bad。 whats the point of your mirrage then?