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不小心看到一个新国人写的blog。。。。新加坡人跟老公来移民大马的感想。。。。
WHY I LEFT SINGAPORE FOR MALAYSIA
In 2013, I packed my bags, quit my job , withdrew my entire savings from the bank and left for Kuala Lumpur (KL) with my husband. To me, leaving Singapore was one of the most difficult decision I had made in my life. It was not a surprise that none of my family members or close friends could understand my decision.
I spent a year thinking deeply before I finally came to a decision. But when I excitedly announced my plans to people around me, I have received no positive responses. None of the people around me were supportive. Instead, many have asked me why I have chosen to relocate to Malaysia when most Singaporeans are leaving for countries with a higher standard of living like Australia, Canada or USA.
So, why am I leaving Singapore when plenty of Malaysians are trying to get into my country? Even my Malaysians colleagues are very surprised when they learnt that I am actually a Singaporean. I was even told by several of them that a lot of their Malaysian friends have actually renounced their Malaysian citizenship to become Singaporeans. No Singaporeans would want leave Singapore for Malaysia. Why I have not follow the norm?
Well, it all began with my Malaysian husband who desperately wanted to be back home permanently. Of course, we fought several times because of this issue. We could be in a long distance relationship which I thunk I can never accept. However, we never have the intention to break up. We simply could not because we just love each other too much.
So, we were left with only two options - Continue to live our life in Singapore or get married and settle down in KL.
After giving much thoughts to this matter, you would know that I have chosen to get married and relocate to KL with my husband. This is seriously the most difficult decision for me to make in the entire 22 years of my life. In this blog post, I shall be documenting my reasons that eventually led me into making my final decision.
想要继续读就按这个link
http://elinchow.blogspot.ca/2014 ... 6960019208515843659
http://elinchow.blogspot.ca/2015 ... y-last-printed.html
comment 里很多人祝她good luck。。。。也有很多人骂她愚蠢。。。
这个是她的facebook fan page
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Elin-Chow/777618985627612
你们觉得她做得正确吗??还是。。。。 请大家留言。。。谢谢。。。。
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