要是当初死去的是我，多好。

Hey花爷爷

家不像家。从小就很羡慕別人家兄弟姐妹相亲相爱，爸爸妈妈都很疼爱子女。

要是当初死在腹中的是我而不是哥哥，那多好。。。

HappyWW

发生什么事？可以讲来听看嘛

7727

别傻，希望在人间。不要埋怨，要苦干。

堕落死神

家里若不和, 都是婴灵所为。你不开心也是灵性所为。

onmyway

什么事啦？

jacob244

没有家庭温暖？

brokenwings

楼主，试问你如何确定如果当初生出来的是哥哥死去的是你，哥哥的遭遇肯定会比你现在好呢？

梦寻雪缘

首先，
怎样“家不像家”？
我从小父母离异后，就跟了很多不同的奶妈照顾，
我也看不到家阿，
但现在还不是活得好好的？
幸福是自己找来的，不是等天掉下来的

cheongandcheong

楼主几岁了呢？该为工作打拼啦。。。这个世上没有如果的。。。
既然已经是事实了，面对它　改善它　。。。加油　！

含笑半步癲

搬出去，出外打工啦，很多时候在身边的都不会珍惜，失去了才觉得可贵，总在一起摩擦就会多，久久见一次，就会懂得珍惜，也比较会体谅迁就，可谓好处多多，不是一直黏在一起才叫亲滴。合久必分，分久必合，总有他滴道理滴

含笑半步癲

搬出去，出外打工啦，很多时候在身边的都不会珍惜，失去了才觉得可贵，总在一起摩擦就会多，久久见一次，就会懂得珍惜，也比较会体谅迁就，可谓好处多多，不是一直黏在一起才叫亲滴。合久必分，分久必合，总有他滴道理滴

Loveshino

原生家庭不幸福，就自己有能力组织一个幸福家庭呗。

卡螺丝

Don't try to solve a temporary problem with a permanent solution.

[转贴]
A Young Woman Messaged Me About Planning Her Suicide. This Is Her Story And My Reply.

~~~

Dear Frank,

This is my true secret.
Ever since my Step-Mother lost her job, financially my family has been rocky which is what I expected. What I didn't expect was the screaming matches between my Father and my Step-Mother. All day and all night, it never stopped, my only sanctuary was school. But then my Father said the only words that I will remember him for

"I wish you were never born!"

These words were a definite blow to my psyche and just a couple months earlier my Step-Mother had said to me "The only reason your here is because no one else in your family wanted you." But the worst part is I've tried to stay optimistic through it all and now the house is getting foreclosed upon and there's nothing I can do about it. Now that you've heard part of the story, here's the actual secret:

I'm planning on killing myself on my 16th birthday in a place where no one can find the body.

P.S. Thank you so much for creating PostSecret

-X

~~~

Dear X-

Give your independent 21 year-old self a chance to change your mind.

At 25 you may have found the nurturing friendships that become the family you make for yourself.

At 30 you might be doing important work saving others who will feel the pain you feel right now.

At 40 you might meet and marry the person who would be destroyed if you took your life at 16.

You may have a 16 year-old daughter or son someday who will be so lucky to have a mother who earned a loving family.

Please don’t try to solve a temporary problem with a permanent solution.

Be well,

-Frank

cellowei

没必要羡慕人家，每个人都有自己辛苦的地方。
要放大自己的好，缩小别人的好。
世界上，除了原生家庭，还有很多值得付出的关系的。
加油。

ran_area

上天安排的事情都不是没有理由的，痛苦的经历谁没有？

经历过痛苦的人，才更能体谅别人的苦楚，也更懂得珍惜~

虽然不知道你经历了什么让你那么心灰意冷，不过不要那么给自己定论以后不会遇到让你幸福的人事物~

cnmember

cellowei 发表于 25-8-2014 08:27 PM
没必要羡慕人家，每个人都有自己辛苦的地方。
要放大自己的好，缩小别人的好。
世界上，除了原生家庭，还 ...

不是要缩小自己，放大别人的好吗？这样才不会目中无人啊。

这楼主挺奇怪的每次都爱放老伯吃女生豆腐的照片，和披羊皮的狼是朋友，都很。。。
怎会有这种悲观的心态呢？
难道来这里找寻C9的安慰哦。？

cellowei

cnmember 发表于 26-8-2014 09:15 PM
不是要缩小自己，放大别人的好吗？这样才不会目中无人啊。

这楼主挺奇怪的每次都爱放老伯吃女生豆腐的 ...

可能是我表达有误。。。
我想说的是要珍惜发生在自己身上的好事，
不要太过羡慕，嫉恨发生在别人身上的好事。
这样， 自己心里会比较好过

我也是觉得那个头像怪怪的。。

lim6392

活着就有希望，很多人想活都没有机会。
人生一定会经历种种考验

moon1901

记得乐观的面对自己的人生最重要
楼主加油